Some people don’t believe in heroes, they have never met my DAD

my dad
my dad

Today, when I am going to tell about father’s in the world, the main question which I want to ask from majority are -Who is father for  us ? What is his role in our life? How much do they matter? How much we need him? What is the place of the father in the physical and psychological growth of children? and etc  make us rethink about their roles in our life.

Father…..Father’s are like mothers- irreplaceable. There is no doubt that mothers play an all-important leading role in the lives of their children. They are obvious heroes of children rearing. But what about fathers? Just how important are the dads of the world compared to the almighty image of mother? My belief is that, fathers play just as important a role as mothers. They have a significant impact in the growth and emotional development of their children, daughters and sons alike.

All the children are generally  attached to their parents from their childhood. Each parent has a special role responsibility and place. Father is significant in a family life.There are large and undeniable difference between the full families with parents and families with single parent. Fathers are angels sent from the heaven. The only person you can depend on is your father;the one who mortgages his own dreams to fulfill yours-is father! In fact, father is the man of the family; he is the column of the family, he is protector; he is provider and leader as well as father is a teacher an example for children. He is the king of his queen(mother), he is hero. In short, he is everything for family members. He is the one whom he should be-father!

With this in mind, I would like to tell that my father has deepest sense and place in my life. The love I feel to my father is different and huge. The more I think about him the more become my admiration and love to him, the more I want to tell and praise, the more  things want to do for the sake of him, more and more…. While I remember his deeds, his strives and attempts for the prosperity, well- being of children, I assured once more that, he is the best one.

I know him….he is very generous, open-hearted, kind and friendly; intelligent ans smart. I am appealed when he works, earn money and bring all these to his family. He does everything for his children. The first person who he thinks is his children-not himself, not his wife, no any another one. He sacrifice, does compromises his wishes, dreams for me and my brothers; put our well -being first. Particularly, I am astonished the way he gives advises, the lovely and polite way he explains something without lauding his voice, the words he choose to be understandable for us. I never forget the times when he is angry with us or upset, when my brothers specifically do something wrong. Every time when they don’t listen to him and make problems such as with  police or fighting’s and it usually happens when there is no good condition at that moment. I am fascinated how he keeps his anger in any events, doesn’t shout or beat any of them, just maintain calmness and tries to find a way from this situation -definitely at the end he finds it. Because  I know, not everyone able to keep quite when they are angry, outraged and disrespected. How many times his head was down before his brothers and children, other relatives because of the youthfulness of his children, how many times he put aside his pride  before people for the sake of his children- these are features and deeds that not everyone able to do; even not every father!!! Just he!

Furthermore he acquires such characteristics of ideal man that impossible to stay invisible. He has a great patient and he is brave. More, he is foresighted, kind and humble. Even if we are in a sad or difficult times he usually does an attempt to change the situation to humor, giving positive and hope to others. What else I love about him is that my father always support my interests and activities, stimulate you forward. The strong communication with him and firm bond pushed me  to get education and be knowledgeable.

My father- he is a person who lets you  experiment life in your own way and pulls you up when you fall; lets you get angry  on him and loves you more after that; lets you see things your own way and then gives his view point; the one who is with you always- especially when you need him! It is only person who  believes you weather you fall or fail; weather you cry or sob; he pick you up; brushes you off and lets you try again. This is what means love unconditionally! he gave most precious things for my whole life. One is love with sacrifice, the second is education with spirituality. He is my teacher taught me  the responsibility of my thoughts, attitude and actions. Told me the seed of greatness is responsibility. He is a great man!

Countless studies show the importance of father’s role in early childhood and it is now considered to be an important factor in a child’s overall social competence, social initiative , social maturity and the capacity to relate to others. Every child needs an involved and loving father.

All things considered I may tell that life doesn’t come with an instruction book. That’s why we have fathers! My father is my power, he is mountain to lean on, he is my everything. Any time I think about him, his kindly looking eyes and care for me always make me cry and increase my love to him. He taught me the reality of life, he taught me to believe in myself. His favorite sayings “can’t is in the book of fools”; “don’t leave for tomorrow what you can do today” and many other quotes he used have been my own internal motivational soundtrack throughout my life. Because of my father I understood from a young age that perseverance and hard work are the keys to everything in life, school, work, relationship.

Perhaps, some of you say that all fathers are like this, kind and protectors to children. Maybe you will be right! But i don’t think so, because my father is different , he is not all. They say ” Becoming a father easy enough, but being one can be very  rough” , ” Any man can be a father, but only someone special be real DAD” , “real hero”.

I love him. I am lucky to have him as my father. I appreciate him so much for being in my life.

 

We don’t want love, we want unstoppable fun…

In today’s world making relationship become so tough and unbearable. It’s mostly similar to cheating because we are ok when there is a communication shortcuts. From the time when majority of the countries accepted “American Democracy”  and of course the impact of new innovative technologies changed the whole world of the people; common relationships like love , friendship, attitudes between parents and children have been modified remarkably. Observing the people around you easily understand most of the things become artificial. In addition to it, many countries government accepted and stated the fact that everyone is free of opinion and has full of rights despite their gender, race and religion. This is the reason why to some extend the attitude to women, their place in society and their behavior have been changing still  and treatments towards them as well. This also has influenced to the  interpretation of treatments or relationships.

Let’s take love, love between boy and girl become so easy and feeling-less nowadays. Seems like inspirable and real love that we read on book and watched on TV is far more different. Before it was so thrilling to see guys doing their best to keep their love, to please them, to fight for them if someone is disagree for their love and even after separating they never change their love  to another, keep  loving the one through their whole life…. Seeing this , you wanted to love… As the name is saying , it was in books …not in reality. Today’s youth are too much careless about their relationship. When distance separating them or when they fight, none side does any afford to save their love, because of  their pride , in this way they fall apart and love vanishes as well. And it doesn’t take long when you see them with another one , another entertainment. Why it is like this? Why it becomes so easy? It is not love we are looking for, only excitement and thrill in life. We want someone to watch movies and party with, not someone who understand us even in our deepest silence.

Not only love, friendship treatments also modified. Who were unseperatable true friends before, now are not talking and  looking to each other. For the sake of business and benefit, own priority one can today trick and betray even long years friendship. And the most surprising fact is that , these friends and lover  couples mostly live, study or are working in the same establishments and when they come across to each other they behave themselves soo artistic like don’t know each other.

The only question that comes to mind every time: why ? why people become so careless, rude? what is the main reason not caring about anything and anyone? It turns out , we forgot what is making sacrifices, the compromises, to invest our time and energy to maintain our relationship last and love grow… That’s why most youth are not looking for love. They just want unstoppable fun, lots of fun, thrilling and amazing experiences that last long. And if we don’t get excitement, bored from any relationship, here we crave, go on to the next one. This is how modern relationships form based on conveniences. Because we think that we don’t have time and patience to long relationships, to develop love. Instead of meeting to face to face, making physical  relationship, we are used to chatting, writing and texting in various social sites. That is also one of the major sources that tremendously affecting to the attitude between people. This, on it’s way producing cold faces and treatments. We start preferring attraction instead of love. And whenever we disappointed or  someone doesn’t meet our expectations, we immediately break up... so sad…so sorrowful. This is the reality of present times.

All things considered , it seems reasonable to assume that love is sacred feeling, and it is not given to everyone. Together with, relationships are valuable, doesn’t matter which kind of. It’s not easy to conquer someone’s heart and belief, once you did it, appreciate it. Don’t use technology as a dating resource, value time and people, as they both precious. Do an afford to make unforgettable memories that makes you live forever in the mind of the people, not just time-pass.

 

 

I am proud to be a woman, we women can change the world!

“Listen to me Amin”- I said slowly.” Listen to me very carefully. Nothing is the same .Nothing will ever be the same. There lives on this earth a woman who can be my friend and my lover. Do you understand that? Do you understand what a marvelous thing that is?”

“A friend is a friend,”- Ushman interrupted. “and a woman is a woman. YOU can’t have them in one person. The whole world knows that.”

“If that’s what the whole world knows,….. then the whole world is wrong. I believed the whole world and I

lost her.”

The words of the author of book “Seven Daughters and Seven Sons” confirm the fact of  significant and unquestionable position of the woman in our life without which it becomes nothing.

Women are the mother of mankind. They are inherent part of society. The role of the women in our contemporary society is different and vary compared  to another gender. Every woman plays many roles like a mother, daughter , sister and wife. they play these roles with many responsibilities in upbringing a good community. They are created as a companion for men and men have to make women  to walk with them in course of life.

Markedly, she is the most complete and perfect creation of God. They are the symbol of beauty, similarly they are treated as goddess in many communities. In previous societies in some period of life women had high position and recognition, more authority and power.Even temples had been dedicated to them as they were able to interfere to family inherent rights. Together with, she symbolize independence, love, caring, gentleness, intensity in love. Its impossible to imagine our life without the care and love of women. Because love comes with woman.

To point out one more important thing is historically women have been treated unrespectedly, undervalued and underestimated, various injustice happened with her. They were expected to stay at home, look after children, supposed principal duty-to continue race; as well as take care of household duties. Only man had superiority; could study and work. woman considered as weak and had very inferior place. However  this conception on the mind of  the people has been modified throughout years. The role of the women in society has been greatly overseen in the last few decades. Different type of strikes, national movements and fighting done in various period giving its seeds. It was not easy to change the traditions that has been entrenched in our systems through ages. But why not? They don’t resonate with our present reality; they are no longer true for us. The whole Universe is ever-changing, why we should stuck in old age system that no longer serve any purpose?

At present, the importance and place of the women both in family and and modern community has changed and still changing for the better. Their role has become more prominent and dominant than before. Also simultaneously   they take part in many social functions of the communities achieving high positions in offices and companies as ambassadors, ministers, woman commander- in chief and so on. We can see them in every fields of society such as economic, education, army, technology even politic. Now modern women can go to school to study what they want. Their function are quite active and this definitely make the world better since both men and women can work together to improve and build it more perfect. However, in some distant places and poor areas in several countries women still suffering from the unfairness, injustice , violation. This should be intensely prevented. Because they are the soul of family; means society. And community can’t develop without women.

In general, the women nowadays could heighten their role. According to the latest researches, women make up more than 50 percent of population in the world. Thus, they are significant in each society; for men ; for the continuation of generation. They changed all the treatment towards them. Knowledge is power, modern women know this. They try to become a women in  knowledge. They want the others , especially men to cease regarding as a second-class citizens. Women want to raise their own voice and elucidate their thoughts. Women are blessed with enough patience to stay and enough strength to move on.

Last but not least, women are the spirit and the happiness of our families. Its unrejectable, they have remarkable influence. there is a women at the beginning of all things. behind every great man must be a great woman. I am proud to be a woman , because we -women can change the world. Mark Twain said:” what would men be without women? Scarce, sir….scarce.” Its true, impossible to imagine life without women.